The Ultimate Guide To Tidying Up Your Life – Step 1 – Understanding Why You Can’t Get (& Stay) Organized
Tuesday, February 4th, 2020Q: Why can’t I get organized? #@$&*%!
A: Trying to get organized often proves frustrating and makes you want to give up before you even get started. Rest easy, there’s a very promising solution!
Getting stuck in “Why can’t I get organized?” stops you from being all you can be physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and more.
Not only does it kill your motivation for organizing, it ruins your:
- Quality of life
- Energy and productivity levels
- Ability to be fully present
- Amount of space in your home and life for the things that really matter
In all likelihood, you already get the reasons why clutter and chaos are problematic. After all, you personally experience the consequences every single day.
But what about the reasons why you stay trapped there?
You Can’t Get Organized Because…
External Factors
- You can’t break free from the daily grind.
Whether you have one small organizing project to tackle or you want to organize your entire house, it’s hard to fit organizing into your busy life.
Maybe you can squeeze it in somewhere between commuting, working, parenting, and cleaning? Ugh.
Being perpetually trapped in the day-to-day could mean another year (or two, three, or more) passes you by – and still you are no closer to your organizing goals.
- You are not prepared for common situations.
There are some spots that need organizing regularly, like mail, toys, and clothes.
I bet if I ask you to list off the clutter hot spots in your home or the ways in which you waste time, you could list them 1, 2, 3 – without much thought.
You likely know the moments that make you disorganized, and if you let them, these moments will continue to steal away all your hopes of finally getting organized.
- You have too many negative influencers.
Negative influencers are anyone or anything that hinders your organizing progress, either intentionally or unintentionally. Think: spouse, kids, and pets.
Despite your best efforts to get and stay organized, these guys just get in the way.
Not understanding how to deal with negative influencers will have a punishing effect on your ability to get rid of clutter once and for all.

Internal Factors
- You are not connected to your why-power.
Just telling yourself that you want to get organized will not sustain you. Why?
It shows that you are interested in enjoying the many positives that organizing affords, but you aren’t fully committed to doing what it takes to realize those positives in your own life.
If getting organized – whether it’s your kitchen or your attic or your files – is not connected to your why-power (aka your deepest motivator), then you’ll easily fall off the get-organized wagon.
- You don’t know what you don’t know.
In order for getting organized to work for you, you need a complete organizing system, or know-how.
Know-how generally consists of more than just tips like “to organize your books, do this” or “to tidy up your closet, do that.” These are what I call surface tips, since they tend to repair the surface of things, and often just for a short time.
If you don’t have the know-how or don’t have access to the know-how, then getting organized can be an uphill climb.
Good News! Your “Why Can’t I Get Organized?” Problem Is Totally Fixable
Will you ever be able to get off the seemingly endless can’t-get-organized ride?
Yes, BUT…
Here’s the thing. There are not just five reasons why you can’t get organized – there are 26 total.
I don’t say that to cast doom and gloom on your situation, but simply to say that it’s important that you are familiar with all of the possibilities so that you can get the best results.
Plus, the good news is that all of the 26 potential clutterbugs can be easily exterminated…er, solved.
I’m sure you can appreciate that a deeper discussion is necessary to explain all 26 reasons why you can’t get organized – and their simple fix.
To join that discussion and get the answers you need, register for the Free Webinar: How to Declutter Your Life (Finally!), Even if You Feel Hopelessly Disorganized.
Carmen Coker
Professional Organizer